Words of Wisdom
Parents: Don’t worry about the degree so much that your child is going to choose. Students should choose a degree that they’re passionate about, and they can find a job anywhere.
Students: Wear a coat.
Parents: Your children are considered adults in the eyes of the university. Prepare to feel out of the loop sometimes but ignore the naysayers who tell you to let your kid figure it out on their own: They are still your kids and it’s OK to help.
Parents: We do want you to be there on move-in day, even though we might act like we’re embarrassed. We enjoy the ways you help us. That day’s sort of scary and chaotic; it can be a little overwhelming. As much as we might act like we want you to leave, we really wish you could stay. Students: Eat. Eat three meals a day. Don’t skip eating because you have to study, make the time to eat.
Parents: I know you’re so sad to leave your son or daughter here, and I was so sad to say goodbye to my parents. It’s tough to get used to change, but I’m still just as close with my family, the time apart actually made us even closer. Whenever I go home, I just appreciate everything so much more. Students: I was really scared when I first got here; I came from a small school, and at first I was afraid to get involved. At a small school you feel important, but when I got here, I thought ‘Oh I’m just another person.’ But that changes quickly; you’ll find your place if you get involved. People are a lot nicer than you think they are.
Parents: The time between drop off and first phone call will seem so long. Keep yourself busy, they are fine, just incredibly busy. It is actually a good thing. And consider sending roommates or close friends little care packages. Make sure they know how to contact you and they feel comfortable talking to you. You never know when that contact will be needed.